Doncaster's top ten male and female sex ‘tricks’ revealed in new survey

Women from the town most want an unselfish lover who cares about their own pleasure more than his.

Second on the female wish list is a partner who really gets to know her body and what turns her on and off.

In third place is waiting for her to have an orgasm first during love-making.

In fourth place is their partner being more sensitive in their touch, with clumsy hands a big turn off.

Fifth place was laying off the booze before love-making so that all their energies can be devoted to her.

Other female priorities were more foreplay, no falling asleep straight after sex and no holes in his pants!

The results are revealed in a new survey by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading affairs site.

The panel, equally split amongst the sexes, were asked to name the ten sex tricks which would make the opposite sex better in bed.

For Doncaster men, the number one request was for women to initiate sex more often.

In second place on the male list was ‘mixing it up’ with 54% of men saying they have got stuck in a sex rut before where their love making routine was always the same.

In third place was making more noise - they love it when their partners moan with pleasure.

Fourth place was talking dirty and their partner explaining during love making what turns them on and in fifth place was giving more oral sex.

The survey found that far fewer women than men were happy with their partner’s performance in bed.

Just 46% of women said that their lover satisfies them sexually most times compared to more than two-thirds of men (64%).

The overwhelming majority of men (94%) have an orgasm every time they have sex compared to just 36% of women.

Three-quarters of men (74%) said the thirst for new experiences was the key to a happy sex life whereas good technique was the most important quality with almost two-thirds of women (63%).

These new experiences extend to having affairs - as long as you don’t get caught.

More than half of men (54%) said they would sleep with someone new while in a relationship if they knew they would not get caught out.

Fewer women (38%) would cheat if they knew their partner would not find out.

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationship expert at IllicitEncounters.com, said: “There are all kinds of tricks that we all wish our lovers would do to make sex better in Doncaster.

“The key to a healthy sex life is being completely up front with your partner and sharing the best tricks that work.

“What the results show is that men most crave a break in routine and getting out of a sex rut. “Women are bored by selfish lovers who don’t care if they orgasm, are clumsy with their hands and wear dirty old pants with holes in them!”

IllicitEncounters is enjoying the busiest year in its 19-year history with a 23% rise in activity since the start of this year.

Freedom Day last Thursday sparked a surge in affairs. More people are looking to cheat on their partners than at any time in the last two years.

Ten sex tricks women wish men would use more

1 Be unselfish in bed

2 Get to know my body better

3 Wait for me to orgasm first

4 Sensitive touch and no clumsy hands

5 Don’t get too drunk before sex

6 More foreplay including oral sex

7 No holes in his pants

8 Don’t fall asleep straight after sex

9 Talk to me more about my desires

10 Make sex more sensual with good lighting and candles

Ten sex tricks men wish women would use more

1 Take the lead in the bedroom

2 Mix it up and try new positions

3 Make more noise

4 Talk dirty and explain what turns you on during love making

5 More oral sex

6 Let’s film the action

7 New lingerie

8 Let me sleep afterwards

9 Watch more erotica together

10 Make love outside the bedroom